Becoming a different person and not putting in the work is like surface cleaning a pest infested house. If you only try to wipe the counters and mop the floors, you’ll never get rid of the pest infestation. That infestation will always be there and resurface if you don’t take the extra steps to eradicate the problem and keep clean.
Don’t wish your failing life on someone else because he or she received something that didn’t work for you and turns it into success.
It wasn’t meant for you. Play your new hand.
Way #1: Give them what they ask for:
No matter how many ways I format it, word it, or tailor it to a job position, it gets the same results.
Way #2: Give them a little
Get the job starting at the bottom and never make it passed the lowest level position.
Some of us are so caught up in what others do, we let their actions make decisions for us.
When I have a lot to do or when I’m in the middle of doing something, I stop the think. I normally do this when involved in something that in have no interest in or when I don’t want to start an uninteresting task right away.
Some call it avoidance and some call it the procrastination. I use my time wisely. I think off subject about something more enjoyable that I would rather be doing. I come up with new ideas, what to cook for dinner, or what I want to do with the kids later. I make note of it and get back to the uninteresting task.
What does off subject brainstorming do for me? It reminds me that if it stand there any longer, I won’t get to the things I would rather be doing. Self motivation
I sometimes blindly accept projects/assignments I had no previous interest in just to create a challenge. Keeps my mind going.
No one can heal you, but you. Accept it for what it is to heal yourself emotionally and mentally.
Physical pain is a job of the mind. To heal yourself physically but still live through the pain, be the same fighter you were before the pain. Remain active in as many ways possible.
Unsatisfied people beg to be pleased but never open themselves up to the feeling the pleasure. We all have a right to feel the way we want, but we don’t have a right to do it at someone else’s expense.
How can one beg for satisfaction when he or she has no standard of what’s great quality or pleasing to them?
How fair is it for someone to repeatedly put in time and effort to make someone feel good and he or she is unaccepting?
If you’re not pleased with everything presented to you, take a look in the mirror, you’re the problem. You can’t make yourself happy and you choose to blame everyone else.
Beggars cannot be choosers if they don’t even know what they want.
When it can’t be rehearsed, it’s timed perfectly, and it’s just as much a surprise to the chuckler as it is the chucklee, the reaction of both individuals is genuine. A relationship has started.
When the tone is off, it is forced. Untimely happening and body language that doesn’t support positivity. The chuckler’s intentions are questioned and the chucklee is left uncertain.
